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#2092353
Reptile_FREAK
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Okay reptic Zone 
I honestly have been driven away from this website, because i blew up on 2 people that were rude to me first, and i like to voice my opinion i am going to get driven away from this site because for no reason people dont like me. But okay what ever i dont really care, im sorry i was misconstrued and thought this was a place that ur aloud to give advice, get it, and voice your opinions. Im just being a bother i guess, so sorry.
Sorry if anyone took this like im starting drama, just wanted to say bye is all, please dont reply to this saying anything just wanted to be a little trouble maker one last time.
Peace
Jenn
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11/05/09 04:45pm
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#2092565
Lone Wolf
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Message To: Reptile_FREAK In reference to Message Id: 2092353
Okay reptic Zone
Did I miss something? I haven’t been on here for like 2 weeks, everything seemed fine, so what happened? Your allowed to voice your opinion, granted I have seen you be rude a couple times but then again everyone is at one point or another, I know I have been. Before you decide to go have you considered that maybe someone miss-took what you were saying that upset them so much? Being on the internet it’s very hard sometimes to discern what someone’s intentions are when they make a comment. Even if you are trying to be rude which I don’t think, their are subtle ways to do it, you don’t have to blow up at them. Or, just ignore it and realize that everyone is going to find something that they don’t like about the next guy (or gal, sorry :) No two people will agree on everything, heck sometimes we’ll argue with our best friend. It’s life, if you don’t learn to ignore small things now, like disturbances on an Internet forum, how are you going to cope with the rest of life if you train yourself to run from your problems?
I don’t think anyone really wants you to leave, yes we have our share of dis-agreements but in the end we are family. Just please consider that before you go. I kinda have a feeling you’ll check back to see if anyone replied so that’s why I’m writing this. If everybody in life agreed on everything this world would be just plain boring. This is a place to discuss views, give help, things like that. And, just one more thing to consider before you make up your mind to leave, we all have bad days. You know that, we all have been rude at one time or another and it’s not always that you don’t like that person. Maybe they just lost their job, cat, dog or whatever, their mind is going to be a bit foggy and sometimes you just don’t feel good. Times like that, it’s harder to always be nice and sometimes we say things we don’t mean. So again, being as I missed it, what happened that you want to leave? Is it something you could ignore, it’s an awful thing to see a family (I think we all are in a way, we listen to each other, talk to each other, help each other, isn’t that what a family does?) Is it something you could let slide so we don’t loose a member? I hope you will be willing to re-consider. :)
Cody
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11/06/09 08:23am
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#2092568
Reptile_FREAK
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Message To: Lone Wolf In reference to Message Id: 2092565
Okay reptic Zone
I understand wht you mean. But i am not a rude person and i care about what people think about me. I like comeing on here to share pictures and tlk and help people but most importantly voice my oppinion about what ever i want because i never get to do that. And just because i was mean to ONE PERSON i cant do that anymore without somebody being upset with me. So i had that argument with you that we both decided to work out together, and what u did was rude to me first. So i acted rude back, thats what i do. For ever reaction theres a equal and opposite reaction, and if your mean to me im mean back. It may be "childish" but thats what i do. So i blew up on lovetheleo because she misunderstood what i had to say in a post, and has been rude to me countless times. And it hurt my feelings, she made me feel like she basically was blameing me because i couldnt walk into my brothers house and steal all his stuff. Hes 20 im 16. it doesnt work like that, and when she came onto my post and implied that i care more about my beardie breaking something that belonged to me rather than himself, that made me mad. I get very very defensive over how ppl think i care for my baby, seeing as my family always says i dont feed him becasue they dont understand he needs lettuce not crickets, so when someone says to me that i basically dont care about my dragon, my reaction is to blow up on them. Equal and oppposite reaction. Then because i wanted to voice my oppinon on that one thread were u stated that Nancy, Edle and chris(?) are treated like gods basically, i agreed. They are. And i wasnt saying one bad thing about it just saying there lucky people have such a high oppinion about them. And Nancy came back and made me feel like i couldnt say anything, because ive been mean to people on here....i was giving her a compliment and she made me feel like dirt. And with the photo contest, just because i dont like it when people take things from me, and it makes me feel unimportant, i asked nicely if i could take back controle, but realized its more fun for people if they get to post there own post when winning so it didnt bother me, But i did ask a lot, because i never got a answer. And we came to the conclusion not to make a big deal, and just send the new people 4 rules that will make it more organized and less hectic so people can understand. And that wasnt a problem at all it was worked out civily. And then someone suggested that the new theme should be thanksgiving, and me voiceing my oppinion becaue i guess i didnt learn im not high enough up on the repticzone food chain to do that, i said it shouldnt be because the oct. one ran all month because it was a early haloween theme, and people have said that they like a lot of them, so suggested it souldnt be, and later said that it wasnt up to me it was up to alice. And nancy once again, made me feel childish for voiceing my oppinion. So i am done with this, and u had a point, i will at least tell you why. I am the childish one, i start to much drama on here, and frankly i know in my mind everyone will be happy im gone. You all taught me a lesson though, no matter were i go, ill never be heard, ill never be able to talk and voice myy oppinion, i just have to sit and wait untill im older so people can actually respect me for who i am. and theres my novel just for u cody. :)
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11/06/09 08:56am
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#2092584
Newfgal
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Message To: Reptile_FREAK In reference to Message Id: 2092568
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Quote: You all taught me a lesson though, no matter were i go, ill never be heard, ill never be able to talk and voice myy oppinion,
You know, there is a difference in being able to "voice you opinion" than being rude or name calling....
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11/06/09 09:46am
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#2092586
Dragon Lover
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Message To: Newfgal In reference to Message Id: 2092584
Okay reptic Zone
Ok I didn’t read it all, so am coming in here blind. The forum is about being here and sharing what you know and your personal experience so that others can learn from you. It’s not about who knows more than the other, it’s about coming together to share what we know so that the next person who comes in here because they just got their first beardie can learn like we all have. When I first came on here I knew nothing, and it’s because of people who were willing to share what they knew that I learned. Not only that, but it’s all about how you say things.
I will be the first to tell you that I don’t know anything. The day we start saying we know it all, that is the day we forget the most important thing this forum is here for.....for the bearded dragons. It’s not for me, it’s not for you, it’s not for anyone else, but for the bearded dragons. That is why am here.....I have seen you in here ReptileFreak....you have learned a lot. Share it with others who may need help, so that their new beardie will be healthy and safe.
Edel
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11/06/09 09:55am
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#2092587
Dcaptain
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Message To: Dragon Lover In reference to Message Id: 2092586
 Okay reptic Zone
I have followed your arguments with a couple people,and i must say you are very defensive,want people to listen to your opinions but don’t want to listen yourself.Also you come across as someone very needy and not with a lot of confidence. I say get on Prozac and grow up a little more then try coming back..Dcaptain
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11/06/09 10:14am
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#2092590
Newfgal
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Message To: Dcaptain In reference to Message Id: 2092587
Okay reptic Zone
Quote: Then because i wanted to voice my oppinon on that one thread were u stated that Nancy, Edle and chris(?) are treated like gods basically, i agreed.
No you didn’t...This is what you said....
Quote: Like it really bugs me when ppl put in there post title NANCY please help, not saying its bad but come on ive been on here for roughly 4 years (had diff. names) and no one treats me like god!!
This is what I said to that....
Quote: I don’t claim to know everything, but maybe people do not ask for you b/c I have seen you be really rude to people, and even name calling, which is not what this forum is for, We are only here to help, thats it, and if someone asks for me, or Chris, or Edel, thats fine, not a big deal. Just saying, maybe if you were nicer to people they would ask for you, and just b/c you have been here for a while do not mean you know everything either, and not saying that I do also...
Now how does me saying this make you feel like dirt or whatever you said it did?
Nancy
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11/06/09 10:30am
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#2092591
Newfgal
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Message To: Newfgal In reference to Message Id: 2092590
Okay reptic Zone
Ok, so I see where you did agree with that, sorry for the misunderstanding there, I reread that post....The thing is though, you get really defensive and upset when you type something, and when someone responds and you do not like what they have said, you get really upset and angry....The only reason I have said something about your attitude in the first place is b/c it’s been going on for so long that I had enough. I know there are people who feel the same, and some may not as well....
The important thing like Edel said, is this forum is for the beardies, and to help others who need it to care for them properly....This is the only reason I am here, and if you can’t handle when someones asks for me, or Edel, or whoever, and not you, than keep your opinions to yourself, if your going to be rude about it that is, then there will not be any drama...
Nancy
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11/06/09 10:39am
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#2092692
Reptile_FREAK
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Message To: Newfgal In reference to Message Id: 2092591
Okay reptic Zone
I really dont feel like sticking around ethier way, my name is bad here. I mean people thnk i need prosac,,,that should tell you something. Just wanted to say im sorry, to Lonewolf for blowing up on him when he himself didnt deserve it We were both wrong, and im apologizing publicly for everyone to see. TO reptic zone, sorry i was being selfish saying that the photocontest was mine, i didnt mean to and i made it sound that way, To ashleyy(?) (lovetheleo) Sorry you took what i said about my brothers chamleleons as i didnt care, and i was sticking up for him being defensive, however u took it i am sorry u took it that way, And i am sorry for holding a grudge on u and blowing up on u when u misunderstood me again. All these acts really embarrassed me, and furthur do and becauase of that embarrassment my name will always be so a extent in a way hated. One last thing, i am sorry Nancy, Edle, and chris (soorry for name misspelled etc) for makeing u feel like i thought u were know it alls, for what ever reason u misunderstood my compliment, and i am sorry that happened.
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11/06/09 03:53pm
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#2092727
Deenosmom
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Message To: Reptile_FREAK In reference to Message Id: 2092692
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I don’t know why you would get upset reptile_freak if people are asking Nancy ,Edel and Chris for help. I ask Nancy for help cause shes nice about it and she really helps me. I Know I ask alot of Questions, but thats because I want Lucy to be happy. We had another bearded dragon that died on us and we had no clue why till I found this forum. Since i’ve joined this forum the only people that will answer my questions at times are Nancy and Edel. It doesn’t make them Gods,they just like to help people with their bearded dragons.............People ask them for help because they answer the questions alot faster. Well thats why I ask Nancy.......Michele
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11/06/09 05:43pm
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#2092793
Reptile_FREAK
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Message To: Deenosmom In reference to Message Id: 2092727
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see you guys still dont get it, iwasnt saying it was bad they knew a lot and was very respected, i was complimenting them, and saying there lucky people have such high oppinions about them.! Seriously...
Quote: I don’t know why you would get upset reptile_freak if people are asking Nancy ,Edel and Chris for help
let me say this loud and clear I DONT CARE THAT PEOPLE ASK FOR THERE HELP! i was complimenting them that they get asked so much JEEZE!
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11/06/09 08:32pm
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#2092797
Deenosmom
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Message To: Reptile_FREAK In reference to Message Id: 2092793
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I’m sorry but to me you sound UPSET......Thats why I said that..Maybe thats why people are saying it.Maybe it was the way you said it and people are taking it the wrong way. Cause guess what I did....You are making it like you are mad that people are asking them.
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11/06/09 08:43pm
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