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Glider
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 Buddy’s Gone Forever

Yesterday was one of the worst days of my life.

Almost 10 years ago I bought this adorable little baby green iguana and became really close to him over the years. I would take him outside on my shoulder and go for walks and he just enjoyed the sun and fresh air.
He free roamed my room once he was potty trained and loved every bit of it. If I sat down on my bed, he would always come over and lay on me, he would leave his warm shelf with food and water to sit with me.
A lot of people don’t think of reptiles as animals that grow attached to their owners but me and Buddy had a special bond.

Even my mom grew close to Buddy over the years and always fed him when she came into my room.

Well this morning, I found Buddy sleeping behind my little fridge. It seemed a little odd so I picked him up and put him on his shelf and as soon as I did that, he started freaking out and then had a seizure. He flew onto the floor upside down twitching with his eyes in the back of his head. I was so scared, I picked him up and just held him in my arms and pet his neck like he always loved. Finally, it seemed like his muscles released and his eyes came back but he was definately effected. I made him comfortable and let him be so he wouldn’t stress out. He kept twitching his legs and tail trying to move them but it was like he couldn’t and then it got to the point to where his body was completely limp except he would lift his head to look at me.
I rushed him to the emergency vet because at this point I knew his suffering needed to end. I cried and cried the entire ride to the vet (closest Emer. vet is 30 min away) and when I got there, I was told I had to be 18 and that they couldn’t do anything. So I called my mom who was at my brother’s soccer game and she came as quick as she could. They took him back and had him in an incubator and ran some blood tests and found out that he had kidney failure. The only thing they could do for him would be to euthanize him (he was in that bad of condition) so I asked to hold him one more time. I just sat there petting him and crying as he slowly slipped away and died in my arms.

The vet then said that he made the decision for me so I didn’t have to.

I haven’t cried that hard since the day my dog died and I can’t express how I feel right now.

I was closer to Buddy than I was any other pet I care for, I grew up with him and have become so close to him.
Now my guinea pig doesn’t have anyone to eat veggies with, and Jack and Petey (my amazon and macaw) don’t have anyone to throw veggies down to, and now I don’t have my "Buddy".
The thing is though, there are so many great things to remember so what I don’t have now is nothing compared to how much joy I got out of raising and living with him.


I will never ever forget you Buddy, and will forever love you.



04/14/08  11:22am

 #1702726


Hewey
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  Message To: Glider   In reference to Message Id: 1702718


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

I am sorry for your loss of Buddy. He knew you loved him.



04/14/08  11:33am

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Tone102
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  Message To: Glider   In reference to Message Id: 1702718


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

Oh that made me cry.

I know how much it hurts. I am so very sorry
He knew how much you loved him I am sure.

Take care
Hugs,
Tone~



04/14/08  11:35am

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Pocochu
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  Message To: Glider   In reference to Message Id: 1702718


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

Oh I’m so sorry for your loss...I know the feeling my iggy was 19 when he died.........At least you know he’s not in any pain and he’s up in iggy heaven with all our other iggys.....So keep your chin up...I know it’s hard...but time heals all wounds...Maybe in time you might want to get another iggy to try and fill that void...I know I did after a while and now I have 4 iggys & 6 water dragons and they are a hand full keeps me busy..But like I said keep your chin up..........

RIP Buddy........



04/14/08  12:46pm

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Yoshi55
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  Message To: Pocochu   In reference to Message Id: 1702800


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

Aww, that made me cry! I really know what it is like to loose a loved one..pet! I have owned some animals longer and had to put them down and some a lot less that 10 yrs. No matter the time we have with them though, they grab our lil hearts and take us for a ride! It’s really hard to put an animal down esp..b/c you think will he live if I dont do this.. am I killing them?? But really, if they are in that bad of condition its their time! I bet he was a GREAT companion and it was hard but your right!! The memories will never die! Ihad a Mountain Horned Dragon that was only a part of my life for less than a yr..and when she got sick I rushed her to the hospital and tried sooo hard to save her. She didnt make it one day. She held on as long as she could! And we sure did have some good times together! I lost her in January.. and it was my moms b-day! I cried for 3 days str8..through the nights! My husband didnt know what to do with me! It hurts I know but time will heal your pain and if you have pictures of Buddy, you can look at them.. it took me a while to do that with "Crazy" the MHD, but I have just started to again. I’m really sorry for your loss and that story got me really choked up!! So, you take care and keep your head up! I know you were a good daddy to Buddy! He was a strong iggy to have had kidney failure! He is in my thoughts and so are you honey!! Keep in touch and maybe one day...you will want another... I got another reptile.. just not a MHD..b/c it got me pretty hard! Keep smiling... and crying is perfectly normal!!!!



04/14/08  04:47pm

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GECKOGIRL22
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  Message To: Glider   In reference to Message Id: 1702718


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

It hurts too much for words to lose a pet. Many people out there don’t understand what we put into caring for our herps, and don’t realize they can be personable like a cat or dog. Try to overcome your loss. You may want to get another iguana, but if you feel you can’t right now you can relax for a little.

I’ve lost many pets, and it hurts a lot. Sorry about your loss, and I hope you’ll feel better about Buddy later. He’s in a better place now.



04/15/08  03:33pm

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Tenten~
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  Message To: GECKOGIRL22   In reference to Message Id: 1704297


 Buddy’s Gone Forever

That was so sad! I know how it feels to lose an iguana. I had a 4 year old iguana named Budweiser (She was strange :P) that had broken her back or something. All of the vets we took her to said they didn’t know what was wrong and that she might have an abscess in her back or something. I felt so bad because I couldn’t really do anything. She stopped eating one week and wouldn’t move around at all. When I woke up one day she had passed away and my sister’s iguana had been cuddling with her all night trying to keep her warm. He got depressed but he’s better now. It’s been two years and I finally got another iguana. I now have a beautiful baby red iggy named Knight. I hope you feel better. I’m sure Buddy loved you.



05/04/08  01:39am


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