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 #1875122


Pocochu
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 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Hi Everyone,

I just wanted to do a little post to say that I’m Sorry I haven’t been on that much the past 4 weeks or so...

I’m going through a living hell right now with my youngest daughter (12)...she was just diagnosed with OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) She has gotten so bad you can’t leave her alone for 2 seconds...She is on meds right now to help her but it take them about 2 weeks to get into her system....

Some times I feel like I’m losing my mind it is so hard to try and deal with this and the things she does and says..it just so unbearable at times, she get so out of control physically & mentally you can’t do anything with her....I’m trying to deal with this the best way I can...It’s so hard not having my mom around, she past away 2 years ago and I’m lost with out her...I have no brothers or sisters and all my family lives back east..3,000 miles away..so there are times that I feel I’m going through this all alone...but I know it’s not true.....I always have my friends here and the Water Dragon forum weather we have met or not, I can always count on you guys here.....

So I just wanted to let you know what was going on.....Hopefully thing are on the right track now....I just want my life and my daughters life back on track and normal again.......



10/05/08  05:03am

 #1875140


Tone102
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   Message To: Pocochu   In reference to Message Id: 1875122


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Annie,

Thoughts and prayers. I do understand. Just take care of yourself and your family. You are always here with us even when you are not here.
I’ll send you a PM.

Hugs,
Tone~
10/05/08  07:17am

 #1875222


Birdfever69
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   Message To: Tone102   In reference to Message Id: 1875140


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

im sorry to hear life has got you down. you will be in my thoughts. please take care of yourself. ive learned that a warm bubble bath, your favorite dinner and movie (and maybe some ice cream) help. just be thankful you still have your daughter and keep your head up. things will get better. take care hun
10/05/08  10:15am

 #1875520


Ziggy1960
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   Message To: Birdfever69   In reference to Message Id: 1875222


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Sorry to hear about this. Be strong, pray alot, and try to be positive. You and your daughter will be in our prayers.
10/05/08  05:54pm

 #1875826


Pocochu
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   Message To: Ziggy1960   In reference to Message Id: 1875520


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Thanks Every one...I really need support right now...I think the meds are starting to work...We have had a few blow ups but nothing like before...She is finally sleeping through the night....I know things aren’t going to change over night..but she will get better it just takes time...

Thanks again for all your prayers...I really need them.........



10/06/08  12:56am

 #1875882


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   Message To: Pocochu   In reference to Message Id: 1875122


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

it’ll be ok, it really will. i will pray for you, and it looks like i’m not alone. take heart. write if you need to--it’s good to get it out.
love and good thoughts,
jesse
10/06/08  08:15am

 #1876508


Pocochu
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   Message To: Jmusclegirl   In reference to Message Id: 1875882


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Thanks Jesse,
Sometime it can be soooo maddening at times because I don’t know what to do with her when she gets in her moods...she is getting better on the meds I can tell they are starting to work..

But hey Thanks again everyone for your prayers, they are much needed......
10/07/08  05:02am

 #1876558


Hbkhbk
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   Message To: Pocochu   In reference to Message Id: 1875122


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Hi Anne, be strong and patient. things will be alright just a matter of time. Pls believe in faith. dun worry we out here always be with you and your daughter. Insyaallah things will change, i pray.
10/07/08  09:44am

 #1876566


LizardMan22
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   Message To: Pocochu   In reference to Message Id: 1876508


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Listen Pockie! You have been helping me since the day i got her. I remember the 1st thing i ever posted on here. "Toes Falling Off" You were one of the 1st people to help me out. You, Tone, Yoshi, and Shifftylarry help me save this little creature i knew nothing about. I posted millions of posts and you never once got mad or "told me off." That just goes to show me how much of a kind hearted woman you are. You were always there to help me with my questions, and it always was the right thing.

I remember about a month or two back i had some "relationship" problems. I went to you first. You told me everything, and it was all so true! You took time out of your day to help me with a problematic girl. You have lke what 300 iguanas, 150 Water dragons, and lke 10,000 different kinds of foods and you were still able to help me with my problem.

You are a very strong person and wonderful hearted woman. My mom wasnt always able to give me what i wanted as a kid but i know why now. Moms cannot do everything. But Anni you some how do. You are simply amazing. You help all of us. You host a iguana contest that every one loves doing and totally goes crazy over the pictures. You help us with what ever we need.

Your a very strong woman and i know everything is going to be okay. I know for a fact that your going to be able to pull through this. Your way too strong to even let the biggest things come in your way.

Now not just speaking on my behalf, but im pretty sure everyone who has known you here on RZ, loves your advice, your personality, all your reptiles and most of YOU! I want to say thank you with everything you have helped me out with on here. KING would of not lived a week if it wasnt for all the advice i had received from you.

Thank you so much Anni for everything you have done for me and KING. We both love you with all our hearts and KNOW (not hope) we KNOW you will be alright and be able to pull through. <3 You Anni!


King Before and Today (thanks to Anni’s, Tone’s, and Yoshi’s Great Help)

BEFORE




AFTER





10/07/08  09:56am

 #1877571


LizardMan22
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   Message To: LizardMan22   In reference to Message Id: 1876566


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Oh and what happened too those eggs i saw on the WD. I wonder if they r a mix :)
10/09/08  03:53am

 #1877573


Pocochu
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   Message To: LizardMan22   In reference to Message Id: 1877571


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Well I destroyed the eggs...I didn’t have an incubator......But Clouddancer22 is going to give my info to a biology teacher at one of the high schools she is teaching at this week and she what she thinks about it.....HA maybe I have created a new species....heck who knows.......



10/09/08  04:12am

 #1877584


Pocochu
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   Message To: LizardMan22   In reference to Message Id: 1876566


 Just To Let You Know..Please Read!!!!!:(

Oh and Ron I want to thank you for your kind words on my post...I’m just glad I can help people...I guess I’m just having one of those bumps in the road of life right now...Some time it feels like the end of the world for me..but I know it’s not...It’s just a bump that I’m trying to get over.....

But Thanks for all your support and prayers everyone...they really mean a lot to me.....



10/09/08  05:05am


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